What to Do If You Suspect Abuse: A Step-by-Step Guide

As in-home child care providers, we often find ourselves working intimately with families, gaining trust and access to what may normally be kept behind closed doors. While it's necessary to keep in mind that no family is perfect and that all relationships experience some anger, frustration, and discomfort, it is important that you feel empowered to take action in scenarios you believe may be harmful to yourself or the children in your care.

If I have a concern, what should I do?

  • If you notice an issue and are comfortable enough with the family, address the issue directly with the parents. Hearing from you in a concerned, caring, open, and judgment-free way could be what they need to begin thinking about and addressing an issue in the home.

  • Normalize therapy and outside support in discussions with parents.

  • Evaluate if an issue warrants a call to ACS and consider if making the call will do more harm than good. In certain cases, the only choice is to make the call, but sometimes there are other options.

  • Make sure to take care of yourself and your mental health in spaces where abuse is a concern. It can be very taxing for the child care provider as well.

It is imperative that you stay vigilant when it comes to the children around you. They are vulnerable and need guidance and assistance to help them navigate through childhood. Always remember to ask questions, listen, and get help immediately if you suspect there is something going on.

Call the ChildHelp hotline at 800.4.A.CHILD (800.422.4453) or 24/7 toll free assistance

Luke Winter